Chatting over SMSes is a very popular thing for today’s text addict generation, but one should be careful where to draw a line as it might lead to ‘sexting’, says a report, which indicates that there is rise in this trend among young people. Exchanging sexual messages, photos or MMS among peers is very common and many enjoy engaging in such activities. But when it comes to sexting where does one put a full stop? We find out.
MBA student Akshey Kapoor feels sexting is like walking on thin ice and one has to be extremely careful while playing with words, especially when sending SMSes. He says, “If two people are okay with mutual sexting, then who are we to judge? Since we talk about free will, it’s not right to stop people from chatting or exchanging their personal views.”
Manisha Shah, a media professional says, “It’s not okay to send sexually suggestive messages or photos on cellphone to your friends, since many could object to the content. However, if they want to be sexually open with their partners or beloved over messages then it’s their choice. But I feel flirting or sexting should be subtle so that no one can later take advantage of it.”
At times, one goes overboard with things and that’s where the other one should speak up if not comfortable. Aayan Khan, an event manager, says, “Among friends it’s ok to send any kind of messages, but if someone is crossing the limits then it’s always better to tell them politely and ask them to stop. If one doesn’t check it in the initial stage it might give them an impression that you are okay with such stuff and it might lead to misunderstandings.”
However, many people still don’t find sexting “cool” and consider it a dangerous arena. Pooja Gulati, a 22-year-old interior designer says, “I don’t think flirting or sending sexually suggestive SMSes is right. It leaves a bad impression on the person who is receiving such messages, and may not understand the tone/mood of the person sending it. It is better to be safe than sorry in such cases since one could produce it as a written evidence and gossip about it with others.”
Surbhi Prasad, Delhi University student agrees, “I don’t think it is offensive to forward sexually explicit jokes to close friends, but one should be careful while sending such messages to members of the opposite sex as they may take it otherwise. I never flirt with guys over text messages or encourage my male friends to send me suggestive text messages because someone else going through my phone could take it otherwise.”