Adash of starshine increases the glam quotient of reality shows on television. But when the stars get a little “over-friendly” with contestants on the sets, it spells trouble. Recently, John Abraham’s simple “peck on the cheek” act with the Sa Re Ga Ma Pa Singing Superstar contestant Sugandha triggered indignant annoyance in some,
including her grandfather. John had to publicly apologise for his action. Also courting trouble was Ranbir Kapoor who, on the sets of a music reality show, not only kissed contestant Rini Chandra but also amused the audience by enacting a marriage ceremony on the sets with her.
Although such “public displays of affection” by stars are basically friendly gestures, some feel a line should be drawn and adhered to regarding getting personal on national television, so as not to hurt the sentiments of Indian viewers. But many differ and feel such acts are blown out of proportion. Niharica Rai, a media professional says, “John did not do that deliberately, it was a friendly gesture to make his fan happy. Moreover, if the contestant was overwhelmed and had no objection, why should people get so judgmental about such trivial issues?”
Actress Pooja Bedi feels the intention behind the gesture is what matters. “I think a peck on the cheek and a hug shouldn’t be a problem as far as it’s healthy, warm and harmless gesture. And if the girl is cool about the act, things shouldn’t be misinterpreted. Society has changed and there are very few who would mind their child been hugged by a star. Stars present at these shows are there to motivate and congratulate contestants and not make them feel uncomfortable publicly.”
A starry kiss in public has often raised brows. In the past, Shilpa Shetty was in the news for being hugged and kissed by Hollywood hunk Richard Gere, while pop singer Mika forcefully kissing item girl Rakhi Sawant was repeatedly flashed on news channels.
“Such mindless gestures are not expected of superstars. It’s not a part of our culture and it is but natural that Sugandha’s grandfather didn’t like it. No Indian parent would want to see their child being kissed on national TV. Even though we have imbibed much of Western culture, we shouldn’t forget our roots. There are decent ways to greet someone, isn’t it?” says Sudhir Singh, a businessman and father of three daughters.
Agrees Pavit Nanda, a PR executive, “Stars should stay in their limit, for the simple reason that while it may not be a big thing for them or even the girl, but such acts cause embarrassment to parents in a society like ours. Although it might just be a friendly gesture, at the end of the day, these things are not appreciated by many.”