There’s reason behind rituals
Indian traditions have always had great regard for women and that is why several rules were formulated keeping their well-being in mind. Most of these traditions are relevant even today and are followed.
For instance, in the Hindu tradition there are special dictates for pregnant women. Rules were devised to ensure that while a woman is pregnant she should be free of fear and tension — anything that may impact her health and that of the foetus was considered and dealt with.
In earlier times, when our cities and towns were less “urban”, many reptiles, animals and birds used to venture out of their nests during the night. Most of these creatures were venomous. The possibility of thieves, molesters and burglars attacking women in the dark was also taken into account. And that is why women were not allowed to go out at night.
According to the Hindu tradition, women are not expected to wear ochre dress and take up asceticism. However, once they attain menopause, they are eligible to become ascetics. Once a woman decides to take up asceticism, she has to forgo all craving for material possessions. She has to cut her long hair and follow all rules of asceticism.
Likewise, our ancients did not allow women to chant the “Om” mantra as men do. This had to do with their physical peculiarities. Effective chanting of the mantra requires deep and slow intake and release of breath. The sound Om emerges from within and comes out in high power waves.
As per old beliefs, the position of the uterus is in the passage of these waves — it is exposed to them and blocks them. Continuous chanting stirs the uterus. However, women are free to chant Om just as other mantras are chanted, without extra intake and holding of breath.
Naago bhaati madena kham jaladharai
Poornnendunaa sarvaree
Seelena pramadaa javena turago
Nityotsavairmandiram
(The elephant shines as it goes musth. The sky shines as it fills with clouds. The night appears attractive in the presence of the full moon. The horse is noted for its speed and the temple for frequent festivals. The woman is noted for her virtuous qualities.)
Thus, our tradition gives much importance to the position of woman. That is why a newly wedded woman is welcomed with a lamp as she enters the house of her husband. She is made to step in with her right foot, holding a lighted oil lamp. Either the groom’s mother or sister hands her the lamp and ushers her in.
A lighted lamp represents Lakshmi, the goddess of all graces and prospects. Hence, the lamp in the observance symbolically refers to the presence of Goddess Lakshmi. It can also mean that the newly wedded girl is considered as graceful as the goddess who brings prosperity to the family. Modern psychology approves of such traditions that promote positive vibes and relations among family members. These observances, it is pointed out, add strengthen family ties.
— The author has written Thaliyola, a book on Hindu beliefs and rituals.
He has also written books on the Vedas and Upanishads. The author can be reached at drvenganoor@yahoo.co.in
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