‘Don’t pressurise your guy’

Aug 24, 2011 - Sindhuja Balaji |

Age Correspondent

Is it easy or difficult to figure out a man? Actress Sanjjanaa sheds some light on how to go about cracking the male code.
“Girls better be careful because boys just wanna have fun!” she says in a light-hearted manner. On a more serious note, her advice to all girls is — be sensible about dating. Dating can be fun but the words “getting serious” are sure to make guys rethink their commitment, “I would suggest you take relationships seriously only in your mid-20s, not before that. Women should be practical because that’s what guys ultimately prefer. Be bold and ask him his views about your relationship, and then you will know where you stand.”
What must girls avoid doing to turn off a nice guy? “Don’t play games with him, just be open and be yourself. Many guys usually want to play around with you but if he’s serious about you, respect that.”
So who seeks stability faster in a relationship? “Women obviously!” says Sanjjanaa. “Just make sure you’re not out to suffocate the guy with the pressure of commitment too early on. Be smart about it and tell him at an appropriate time.”

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